老爸老妈的浪漫史第四季

何时才有第五季？

当第四季最后一集，泰德（不好意思，英文不好）向孩子们说他们的妈妈就在这间教室里，我就震撼了……第五季……这是一部让人欲罢不能的片子。

第四季在最后感情线才有推进，很喜欢ted重见Stella的那一分感悟。

barney改编圣诞曲讲ted妹妹的地方很有意思，男女主关于40岁的后备夫妻约定我很是赞同哈哈哈哈。

编剧描述Marshall汉堡那里想象力绝了。

单集的情节设置上有了讲述者倒叙的手法比老友记多了一分味道，不过两部剧我都很爱，都很能填充碎片化时间哈哈哈

角色转折成长突破——《老爸老妈的浪漫史第4季》

今天聊聊美剧《老爸老妈的浪漫史第4季》。

片名How I Met Your Mother Season 4 / HIMYM 4 (2008)，别名老爸老妈罗曼史 / 寻妈记。

第四季围绕主角们生活中的关键转折展开。

泰德面临职业选择的困境，巴尼和罗宾的感情纠葛愈发复杂，马修则勇敢地面对屋顶跳跃的挑战。

这些故事在嬉笑间展现角色们对未来的信念，还有他们不断成长的勇气。

第四季的爱情纠葛错综复杂，映射出不同的情感色彩。

角色们的关系变得更加复杂，尤其是泰德、巴尼和罗宾的三角纠葛，还有马修的婚姻生活。

泰德的未来妻子到底是谁？

这个谜团贯穿全剧，引发观众的无尽好奇。

虽然本季没给出答案，但那些时有时无的细微线索让人对接下来的剧情充满期待。

这一季，我们见证了角色们的成长轨迹。

泰德的建筑梦似乎总是触手可及，却又遥不可及。

他从一个迷茫的建筑师，逐渐找到自己的方向。

巴尼从一个典型的花花公子，开始学会了责任和爱。

他对罗宾的真实情感逐渐显现，虽然当罗宾回应他的感情时，巴尼却选择了逃避，回到他熟悉的游戏人间生活中。

罗宾从职业女性转向探索内心世界，她的内心挣扎引人共鸣，从拒绝到接受对巴尼的感情，反映了她对爱情一贯的恐惧与不确定。

马修和马修则从新婚夫妻成长为准备迎接新生命的成熟伴侣。

第四季的最后一集，以一场“信仰飞跃”完美收官。

泰德抛弃了建筑设计，投身教育事业；马修克服了对高空的恐惧，终于登上了梦寐以求的屋顶；巴尼和罗宾也终于勇敢面对了彼此的感情。

一切似乎都很完美，角色们各自在成长路上实现了突破。

泰德的“飞跃”在于他放弃了建筑师的梦想，转而成为大学教师。

这个并不普通的决定反映了他对人生的深刻思考。

他意识到，与其固守一个不适合自己的职业，不如投身于真正能发挥自己才华的领域。

这种转变也暗示着他即将遇见自己的“真命天女”。

马修的“飞跃”在于战胜了多年的恐高症，终于跳上了对面屋顶。

这个看似不可能的挑战，象征着他勇于自我突破，敢于走出舒适区，面对恐惧，最终获得了成长与快乐。

巴尼和罗宾的“飞跃”在于勇敢面对彼此的感情，虽然最终没能在一起，但他们的勇气依然值得钦佩。

他们不再掩饰自己的真实想法，而是选择了坦诚相对，即使这意味着可能的拒绝。

爱情中成长，信仰促飞跃。

“你不能一边爱着罗宾，一边和地球上那些傻大胸妞嘿咻！

你必选现在作出选择！

”“我选大胸妞好了”“什么！！！

”“嘿，莉莉。

大胸妞能让我开心，她们能让我感觉良好，她们才能让我假装是个好人，而对罗宾的那些感觉只是暂时的，当这一切结束的时候，我的心还是属于大胸妞的。

”“不，那只是假象，那只是因为你受伤了”---以上，如此出彩的台词可怜的巴尼，只能看看新闻看看那个人儿（卑微吧，爱意的同义词就是卑微感）再加上围绕星战的话题，斯黛拉那句“I do”。

你相信么？

反正我不信，泰德，一直我把他当作我，当作我周围的大多数男生。

看看他们想想自己，因此，我不信这个“I do。

”那么，太过了解是不能产生爱情的，这一集大概讲的是这个道理吧，我挺赞同的。

By DefayI have been watching How I Met Your Mother recently. I love it so much that I spent an entire weekend watching it non-stop. The show is really hilarious yet full of wisdom. Despite how insane and exaggerate the stories the narrator tells are, he really tries to teach some lessons here.An interesting thing that I have to mention about this show is that at first I think Barney Stinson stinks, but gradually I fell in love with this character. Okay, "fall in love" might be too strong a word but it's true that Barney Stinson, the character along with the actor who plays it, is becoming my new favorite. I myself felt very confused sometimes, as Barney is not supposed to be liked by so many people, especially by me. He is a total liar and playboy who does not care about other people's feelings. He is conceited and selfish, greedy and arrogant. And above all, he is frivolous.Yet I was deeply touched by Barney three times by the end of season 4.The first time was when Marshall and Lily break their engagement, Barney lures women away from Marshall so that he can remain faithful to the woman he truly loves. It is later revealed by Lily that it was Barney who convinced Lily to come back to New York, even buying her a plane ticket home.The second time was when Barney was secretly in love with Robin, he acted like a baby. He did everything he could to help Robin, especially that time when Robin accidently quit her job and might be expelled from USA. Barney wants Robin to be around him so much that he helped Robin to make a video tape as a resume to find jobs. Later during video shooting Robin was irritated by his ideas and he finished her e-resume alone by himself. Eventually he succeeded in finding Robin a job and kept her in the group.The third time was when he heard that Ted was hit by a car and was in hospital. He did not hesitate even for a second and rushed to hospital. When he found he could not get a cab, he ran on foot to hospital. Just as he was a street-across away from the hospital, he was too tired and did not notice a fast-driving bus that he himself was hit by it and badly injured.See why they still hang out with him? Everyone in the gang owes to Barney.Put aside his personal life, Barney does have very special and sparkling aspects in his personality that are so rare and precious that it is very hard to find them in a human being.First of all, he is rational. Recall that he is always keen to experiment on all kinds of tricks to hit on girls to test which ones of them actually work. No matter how many times he fails, he just keeps on trying till he reached a scientific statistical conclusion. That's right. 83%. That number applies to everything.Secondly of all, he challenges himself all the time. "Challenge accepted" even if for most of the time, nobody challenges him. He just enjoys it, setting goals, thinking up strategies, taking actions, and eventually, achieving goals, which is closely related to another big merit of his, persistence.Third of all, he is persistent. Recall that once he raised his right hand to high five but nobody responded him. He raised his hand till someone slapped him five. Barney is so driven to succeed, he will do whatever it takes to get what he wants, including lie, cheat or bribe his friends. If he's trying to get a hot girl, he might even pretend to be an astronaut or a taxi driver. Barney will talk trash, or even tell the truth if that's what it takes. He always gets what he wants. You have to admire drive and determination like that.Fourth of all, he is audacious and passionate. We always see him running to do things. He never hesitates. When he wants to do something, he does it, immediately, or over a shockingly long period of time, secretly plotting. Of course, we should exclude the circumstances when he was deeply in love with Robin, which weakened his ability to make resolute decisions. His love for Robin actually completes him as a human being. We can see him as vulnerable, soft and caring as any man in love can be. We can see he has a breakable heart just like everybody else.Fifth of all, we know that he is confident for sure, but sometimes he is peculiarly calm. Once, a big merger in the company Barney works in fell through and Barney was getting blamed for it. Marshall overheard that Barney might be fired. Everyone is worried except himself. Or at least he acted like he is not worried at all. He launched his project of "Perfect Week", e.g., sleeping with seven women in seven days without a single rejection, to deal with the stress. On the next Monday, Barney keeps his job. And his boss says it must have been a stressful time for him. "I barely slept," Barney winked.Last but not least, he keeps rules. Despite the crazy and maniac ideas and actions, Barney keeps rules, except those rules are written by no man but himself. Still, he lives to it, devotedly. His Crazy/Hot Scale, Platinum Rule and Lemon Law are just a few of his dating guidelines. He has rules to govern his professional life. (Actually doing things gets you fired.) He updated the definition of cheating. (It's not cheating if you're not married, if the girl has two consecutive vowels in her name or if she lives in a different area code.) But his rules governing bro-to-bro relationships were so important he published them in a book called "The Bro Code."Just think of having a friend like him around you. You can laugh at him every day because he is mentally strong enough to keep your unintentionally hurtful words from actually hurting him. Yet he brings you all these novel and original stories and ideas and other things that you've never heard of every day, to share with you or to brag about. He urges you to do crazy things you've never done in your entire life. It's so not boring when you are with him. Suit up! Phone five! It's gonna be Legen-wait for it-dary! I'm awesome! There are so many amazing and amusing or even annoying things he talks about. If you don't hear him say for one day, you will even feel something is missing in your life.I think the most important reason is that, even though Barney is a playboy, he only hits on bimbos. And only bimbos buy into his lies and acts. Girls clever as Robin or Nora would not be easily seduced to his moves. He knows it and he tried even harder to prove to everyone that when Barney Stinson is not a jackass, he could really be a dreamy boyfriend that every woman would want. He is always handsome, wears a suit every day, even in his sleep (he wears a suit-jamas at bedtime) and he is clever and wealthy. Nothing can stop him.BTW, the actor who plays Barney Stinson is actually gay. Heart-broken, huh? Still, I admire his exquisite acting skills, as well as his magic tricks, acrobatics and singing performances.

在录制罐头笑声的肥皂剧中，这部算是不错的了，喜欢它的配乐，有很多首都有让人耳目一新，还喜欢开头和结尾的几句台词，经常地出经典，恩，还有片头的照片show，总之，有些煽情的肥皂剧啦

　　　　　　　　　　　　　——（或）每个Barney最后都会是个痴情汉小时候养藤萝，最激动的阶段是芽蔓开始伸展，触角开始向周围试探的时候。

同时却也发现芽尖若被伤毁，整棵植株将很容易死去。

也许敏感的东西不一定是脆弱的，但是它必须是极端的。

就好比我今日吃薄荷糖上瘾如若死性不改，他日我必然沦落到味觉丧失的地步，当然这个取决我吃的量和时长。

或许我们最该防范的不是根而是芽，不是消化道而是味蕾，不是心脏而是指尖是眼神是唇吻是神经末梢。

那是因为我们虽然生存了下来但是我们虚妄的苛求自己是在生活着的。

玩弄文字游戏固然很可恶，但是大多数时候我们就是这样被无情的玩弄着的。

别叫嚣你是多么的不相信这个世界上还有神迹，当人倒霉的时候谁都会下意识的先出口诅咒上帝（But God,you must know I love you, Emily love you!)，当你的姑娘叫你独自去完成“你们”的梦想，叫你背着背包去拯救地球，而她自己却躺倒在老男人的怀里清点礼物同时幻想着如何嫁作他妻。

这个时候兀管你是要骂“s”开头的，“f”开头的，反正任何一个四个字母的单词你尽可以拿来当感叹词用。

我有时候信仰能量守恒，认为你如今付出却得不到的并不代表你已经失去了，只是时空更迭你不知道会在哪个时间或是哪段时间，从哪个人身上或者哪几个人身上得到。

上帝死去了，但是三天后又将复活。

只是人生若太计较得失终究是会累坏了的，春光会很快散去，几上的茶也快凉了，你迫切到达目的地却忘记在来时路作上标记，终究是要迷失的。

而画太美了，神经也是会累的，不如标上价格敲木棰贩卖来得轻松。

感官上的宴飨总是极致却也脆弱的，华丽丽的聚拢来却要凄冷冷的散去，杯盘欢响总是作给别人看的。

为何不让我早点懂得，宁愿相信浪子回头，也不要相信痴情的人会永远爱你，原来你最信任的人，最后总是最狠心的将你背叛。

一开始就痴情的人，最不可能撑持到底，他没有后劲，这种酒，当下陶醉欢喜就好，你以为你的追寻已经结束了，但是他的欢场才刚刚拉开了他的帷幕。

太残酷。

Lily和Marshall理应成为所有人间眷侣与冤家的典范。

Ted也会说“I look at you guys, and that's all i want in the whole world”。

这一集里，都因为Cosmo Girl上一句“As we mature, our realtionship mature”，Lily和Marshall决定放弃他们从大学二年级起的一个小仪式——Lily去了西雅图，可Marshall不打算再戴着傻帽子，举着呼唤爱人乳名的小牌子站在肯尼迪机场等她，Lily也不打算再带回没有什么实际意义的6瓶装当地产啤酒。

其实Marshall和Lily的小惯例远不止这一个，他们每天午饭时间通电话，告诉对方“我爱你”；他们每年新年钟声响起时必须深吻；他们每天回家的第一件事，就是互相汇报，在他们暂时分开的白天，各自都吃了些什么。

但是正如取消机场小仪式的打算，他们今年新年一刻，是在沙发上伴着《友谊地久天长》的音乐依偎昏睡着度过的；Marshall也把最近一通的Lily午餐来电转到了语音留言信箱。

好在，他们临时都改变了主意，Marshall决定在暴风雪中赶去机场，Lily要在下飞机后想尽一切办法弄到6瓶装西雅图产的啤酒。

开车的Robin不能理解Marshall的这种愚蠢俗套的小甜蜜式爱情，认为表达爱并不一定要给对方取幼稚的昵称、留肉麻的留言，更不必冒着暴风雪冲到机场，这一切，都没有意义。

Marshall告诉她那是由于她从来没有遇到一段让她想做这样的愚蠢事情的爱情。

他和Lily一直这样做的原因除了出于习惯，还因为他们，没有想出什么其他更好的表达爱的方式，只好用力地这样老土地去表达。

可惜，最终他们在时空中小小交错了一下，没能对接好。

（这里编剧两条时间线共用的讲故事方法真是高明）所有的人都以为Marshall不会再去接Lily了，Lily推着一整桶好不容易弄到的啤酒，落寞地坐在休息椅上。

旁边的人偏偏用Saxphone吹起了《友谊地久天长》...忽然远处又有两人鸣号同揍，更多乐手也忽然出现。

Marshall在音乐中戴着一如既往傻的帽子，举着“Lily Pad”的小牌子，边走边说："A muffin, a pastrani sanwich, and a bag of chips,And, i know it's way past lunch time, but i love you.More and more each day.I love you, Lily.Happy New Year."编剧可以选择了《友谊地久天长》，因为Marshall在与Lily结婚的誓词中说，他爱Lily，不仅因为他作为爱人爱她，更因为，他们是最好的朋友。

上面这个细节，是我前男友提醒我的，因为他跟我说我是他从小最好的朋友，我当时的反应是觉得这一点也不浪漫。

他说，最希望的是，我们，可以成为Lily和Marshall。

我们都和Ted一样，只懂得羡慕别人的幸福，以为那是自己愿意不惜一切得到的，实际上却没有在任何一段关系中那样去细腻付出过。

我的父母每天都会告诉对方，这一天中唯一不在一起吃的一顿饭，都吃了些什么菜。

他们也会在每一天的电话里，问问我三餐到底都吃的是什么。

其实这跟中国人重视饮食没有关系，原来地球那边也是这样。

虽然有情饮水饱，可在饱暖的日子里，真正关“心”自己爱的人，就会在意他的“胃”。

——献给Lily和Marshall

How I Met Your Mother S04E24:(Lily): Architecture is killing you,Ted,and it's killing us to watch it killing you. You're like that goat with the washcloth. You want it so bad,and every time the world tries to take it away from you,you keep grabbing it.But you know what? It's just a washcloth. Why do you even want it?(Ted): Because I... I have to be an architect. That's...that's the plan.(Lily): Screw the plan. I planned on being a famous artist. Marshall planned on being an environmental lawyer. Robin planned on being a TV reporter.Barney planned on being a violinist. Look,you can't design your life like a building.It doesn't work that way.You just have to live it,and it will design itself.(Ted): So,what,I should just do nothing?(Lily): No. Listen to what the world is telling you to do and take the leap.Ted:That was the year I got left at the altar.It was the year I got knocked out by a crazy bartender.The year I got fired.The year I got beat up by a goat. A girl goat,at that.And damn it if it wasn't the best year of my life.Because,if any one of those things hadn't happened,I never would have ended up in a which turned out to be the best job I ever had.But more importantly,I wouldn't have met your mother.-That is life and that's why I love this TV so much, it tells you stories about truly committed friends while revealing the truth of life with graceful smile

lily简直是个疯子！

看到第17集的时候她居然想方设法让每个她看不爽的ted的女朋友分手 原因居然就是因为她不希望老了看到她，marshall，ted还有ted的老婆四个人在阳台上时多么不和谐，这种暗自操控了你十几年的人真的太恐怖了，如果我是ted我真的会产生一种深深的恐惧和强烈的背叛感。

ted说的对，你不能因为自己18岁时幸运地在大学走廊上发现了一生挚爱，但是这并没有给你权力让你扮演上帝来拯救我们这些依然在寻找另一半的笨人。

另外有一集讲marshall和lily的机场约定的时候，他们无时不刻不顾场合地黏在一起，他们两个的粘糊劲甚至让人觉得有一丝恶心，可能也是因为我有一种隐秘的嫉妒，如果我是当事人我会庆幸我找到了一生所爱并且也不会那么在意别人的想法，如果我是他们的朋友我只会觉得厌烦。

不过第24集ted说得对，如果不是你以前经历的事，也就不会有后来的你。